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Ask retirement tribute questions people can actually answer.

Broad prompts produce adjectives. A good tribute question points at one kind of memory and gives the contributor permission to write something small.

By BecauseYou Editorial Team · Published

Questions about impact

Impact is easier to describe through a before and after than through praise.

  • What do you do differently because you worked with them?
  • When did they make your work or life easier?
  • What confidence did they help you build?
  • Who else benefited from something they taught you?

Questions about lessons and craft

These prompts work for mentors, peers, direct reports, clients, and former colleagues.

  • What did they teach you that no handbook could?
  • Which piece of their advice still turns up in your work?
  • What standard did they set without announcing it?
  • What mistake did they help you recover from?

Questions about ordinary moments

Small scenes often say more about a person than official milestones.

  • Which ordinary moment captures what they were like?
  • When did they notice something everyone else missed?
  • What is a tiny kindness from them you still remember?
  • Which meeting, trip, lunch, or deadline story makes you smile?

Questions about what continues

Legacy does not need to sound grand. It can be a template, phrase, ritual, or way of treating new people.

  • What will the team keep doing because they introduced it?
  • Which phrase of theirs will people keep repeating?
  • What part of the workplace will still feel like them?
  • What do you hope they understand about the difference they made?

Improve a broad prompt

Generic: 'What makes Alex amazing?' Specific: 'Tell us about a moment when Alex made difficult work feel easier.' The second question asks for evidence and does not tell the contributor how they are supposed to feel.

Common questions

How many questions should I send?
Use three to five. Mark one as required and let contributors choose among the rest.
Should every contributor answer the same questions?
Keep one shared impact question, then offer optional prompts. That gives the tribute a common thread without forcing identical answers.