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Ask retirement tribute questions people can actually answer.
Broad prompts produce adjectives. A good tribute question points at one kind of memory and gives the contributor permission to write something small.
By BecauseYou Editorial Team · Published
Questions about impact
Impact is easier to describe through a before and after than through praise.
- What do you do differently because you worked with them?
- When did they make your work or life easier?
- What confidence did they help you build?
- Who else benefited from something they taught you?
Questions about lessons and craft
These prompts work for mentors, peers, direct reports, clients, and former colleagues.
- What did they teach you that no handbook could?
- Which piece of their advice still turns up in your work?
- What standard did they set without announcing it?
- What mistake did they help you recover from?
Questions about ordinary moments
Small scenes often say more about a person than official milestones.
- Which ordinary moment captures what they were like?
- When did they notice something everyone else missed?
- What is a tiny kindness from them you still remember?
- Which meeting, trip, lunch, or deadline story makes you smile?
Questions about what continues
Legacy does not need to sound grand. It can be a template, phrase, ritual, or way of treating new people.
- What will the team keep doing because they introduced it?
- Which phrase of theirs will people keep repeating?
- What part of the workplace will still feel like them?
- What do you hope they understand about the difference they made?
Improve a broad prompt
Generic: 'What makes Alex amazing?' Specific: 'Tell us about a moment when Alex made difficult work feel easier.' The second question asks for evidence and does not tell the contributor how they are supposed to feel.
Common questions
- How many questions should I send?
- Use three to five. Mark one as required and let contributors choose among the rest.
- Should every contributor answer the same questions?
- Keep one shared impact question, then offer optional prompts. That gives the tribute a common thread without forcing identical answers.